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What to do if your Partner is Cheating Online

Monday, January 4, 2016

Online cheating is when your boyfriend or spouse is having virtual affairs that include sexting, flirtations, or exchanges of racy photos without having a physical affair.

Here's a friend's account on her bf's online cheating:

I'm quite certain that my bf is doing the exact same thing on Facebook. First of all, I didn't know he was active on Facebook until he sent me a screenshot of a website we were talking about. I didn't notice it right away. There on his notifications panel was a facebook icon indicating he has a chat message. And at the right part of the screen is a profile photo of a girl wearing something sexy. Ugh!

What to do

So what do you do when you've noticed all signs of an online affair? Would you confront him and ask him to come clean? What if he denies it? Or what if he admits it? Then what?
Is online cheating a deal breaker in a relationship? For me, trust is very important in a relationship. Even if the guy came clean, the relationship will never be the same.
If your guy denies anything to do with online cheating yet your gut tells you otherwise, you should gather more evidence and confront him once again. It's probably for the better if you find out everything before you end up marrying him. Him looking for someone else online indicates that something is lacking in your relationship.
But if you think you are doing everything you can, then maybe it's not your fault he cheated. Some people are just born cheaters. There's nothing you can do about it. Time to move on..

Grow Tomato in a Pot

Sunday, January 3, 2016

Living in the city and a wannabe farmer at the same time? Yeah, that's me. I love plants but I'm not sure if plants love me. I bought several potted plants over the years but they never seem to last in my  garden.

They would die within a month even if I provide ample water and sunlight. Just a month ago I have this beautiful potted daisy and thought it's going to live but oh boy..it only lasted 2 weeks. A caterpillar ate the leaves till nothing was left. I removed one and I thought that's about it. I didn't notice right away that there were 2 of them till it's too late.

I read about planting tomatoes in pots and it seemed pretty easy to do so I tried it. I didn't even need to use seedlings. I used tomato seeds fresh from the tomato fruit. It only took 3 days to germinate. And here it is now at 3 weeks. 😃

Early Morning Walk at Roxas Boulevard

I would like to start the new year with new habits. Every Sunday morning, I would make it a habit to take a walk either in Luneta or Roxas boulevard.

  • I woke up early today and went to Malate. Dropped by Malate church to attend a morning mass then proceeded to walk towards Roxas Boulevard.

The weather was kinda gloomy but the temperature is pleasant enough for a morning walk. 

There was a man feeding pigeons at the plaza and some locals taking a morning walk.
Half of Roxas blvd. was closed for a Sunday Fun Run. When I got there, there's a handful of participants running already.

Fun Run @Roxas Blvd.

Want a massage? These kitties are offering their services (well uhm..after they are done with their cat nap). 😃

Manila bay in the morning...


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